Your relationship with your mate is your relationship with your mate. Although it may seem at times like others have a stronger relationship and a better bond than you and your mate, the truth is you never know what is going on when the night falls and the doors are locked. It is never a good idea to compare, because your relationship is unique and will never be the other person’s. Be happy that i…t is that way because there are certain things that make your relationship special. Someone may have a wonderful mate but that person may leave the toilet seat up everyday, and that might drive you nuts. If your happiness with someone is based on the comparing of another pairs happiness then what you have is an image issue. You want the image of what you see, but what you are seeing is two people who love and accept each other. When you stop comparing and start focusing on your own relationship you will be as well.